WOW! It's hard to believe that the BSM fall 2018 semester has come to a close! This semester far exceeded my own plans:
Please continue to PRAY for BSM, our staff, & our students.
Below are a few pictures from the Fall 2018 semester!
Allow me to tell you about two students we met as a result of BSM FREE LUNCH.
We met James two weeks ago. He came in late and ask if there was any non-pork related food. After a short conversation I assumed he was Muslim. During our conversation “Is Jesus the only way to God?” James asked “What if you knowingly sin does grace cover that & would Jesus forgive you if you do?” After lunch he ended up in a conversation with my brother, Tim, who was visiting before he flew back to Germany. James is a Seventh Day Adventist from South America. James was brought up in the small part of the Seventh Day Adventist’s that practice a strict Kosher diet and adhering to Levitical Laws. He admitted that he had strayed from his faith and was working to get good enough to be accepted by God. Obviously, we talked to him about how GRACE fits into our faith.
Kara grew up Catholic. Today she showed me scares on her arm from where the nuns hit her with a ruler as a child. She believes in God, Jesus, & the Bible. But admittedly struggles with “trusting in one person or one book.” She comes every week and is open to spiritual related conversations. I told her that I loved how open and honest she is about her faith journey and that I'd be happy to continue to talk about spiritual things whenever she'd like.
PRAY for both James and Kara that God would continue to reveal Himself to them and draw them to himself.
Since last Fall/Spring BSM has DOUBLE in size! Don't get me wrong, it's a GOOD PROBLEM to have. Providentially, we were placed in a room that holds 75-80 (even though I complained about the room @ first). But this also means:
Why am I "reflecting" @ the BEGINNING of the FALL? Well, after the past week I'm curious what God might be up to as we begin our fifth semester @ Lonestar Montgomery. As of today:
1) BSM had an amazing Kickoff that allowed us to connect with 300-400 students.
2) Over 10% of the students we met @ our Kickoff chose to sign up for our weekly reminders & express interest in begin part of BSM weekly.
3) We have wonderful local local friends & churches who partner with us to make our special events & weekly lunches possible.
4) We have an incredible relationship with LSCM Student Life.
5) We have some GREAT student leaders (leading an Explore God Group) this semester!
6) We have wonderful volunteers - both on & off campus who make BSM possible.
7) UGGG! We were assigned our second choice for a room this semester. Here's that story & maybe why...
The past 3 semesters we've been in Building G. This past April, I requested a classroom in Building G again for this Fall. Building G is the "General" building on campus with a lot of foot traffic & a majority of the typical "freshman" courses. On Monday, I was told that all the classroom space (which hold up to 40 students) was completely full this Fall during our FREE LUNCH & that we've been assigned to Building B, Room 102. So I spent some of Monday evening complaining to my husband about Building B. Two years ago, our first semester @ LSCM, we used B-102. Not a bad room as Building B (the sciences building) it runs along the major sidewalk on campus. So it's not a terrible spot on campus to be. Actually it's easier to access than the 2nd floor classrooms in G we used last 3 semesters. Oh, did I mention that B-102 is a theater, which holds 75-80 students?!
During our Kickoff Event Tuesday, I found myself hoping that all 300-400 students did NOT come back next week for FREE LUNCH - we won't have room (especially in a classroom) nor enough food... that's when it hit me that we would be in B-102. Maybe God knew what he was doing after all... praying we pack B-102!
HE's in charge & I'm just along for the ride. Thank you for your continued prayers & support.
There was no burning bush, but today our ordinary classroom became unmistakably Holy. For a few moments, with the typical smell of pizza, the movement of students coming and going to class, and as two local pastors answered the faith/spiritual questions of students over lunch, our conversation turned from inquisitive questions about theology, faith, and the spiritual realm to "What is sin?" which ended up turning into a conversation with one student about the Gospel.
You remember "Holly."* She "found" our FREE LUNCH in January because there was FREE FOOD. She admittedly has no faith/spiritual background or comprehension. She came back today, for the second time, because she was curious to know more. As our conversation progressed, I glanced around the room at other students, mostly Christ followers, and by the looks on their faces could tell we all felt the energy of the room change as we realized that for about 15 minutes this conversation became a Holy conversation. A seekers conversation. The conversation moved from the most basic: sin, to an intro into 10 commandments, to who was Jesus, why He came in human form, why He died, our response to Him, & how to make Jesus the boss of your life. Tears came to my eyes as I witnessed the beauty of the Holy Spirit pursuing Holly.
After lunch, she and I chatted in the hallway. She mentioned that she knows there is a God, a "bigger Being." Although she does not understand and know that "Being" she wants to. She's unsure about religion and skeptical of Christians. She asked, "How do you pray?" So I told her the cool thing about God is that he's all about friendship (not religion) and showed her how to just say what's on her mind. We prayed in the hall with our eyes open, "God, I don't know you but I want to. Show me who you are."
Lastly, I asked if she had a Bible. "No." I asked if she wanted one. "Yes." So I showed her the youversion app and ended up giving her a Bible. She said she had never held or opened a Bible, so I gave her a quick tour explaining the division of testaments, books, chapters and verses (ALL completely foreign to her). I booked marked the book of John with my business card and challenged her to read chapter one by next Tuesday. Then I handed her the Bible. Her face light up with awe as she held HER Bible for the first time, "There's something special about this book!" I responded, "There's no magic in it, but it is a very special book."
PRAY FOR HOLLY:
* the names of individuals in this story have been changed.
WHAT A GREAT DAY @ BSM TODAY! Thanks to all who prayed for our last FREE LUNCH conversation for the Fall of 2017. Our question of the day was "Is it possible to be friends with God?" The conversation was lively & honest. All agreed that a friendship with God is possible, was Yahweh's intent for our creation, as well as what set in motion his plan to redeem us after we "messed that all up." We spent time on The Bridge Illustration as part of our conversation.
AFTER LUNCH - a first time student came up with tears in her eyes. After I hugged her I told her that no one I'd ever given pizza to had cried about it, which loosened the mood & got her talking. She was overwhelmed by the Spirit of God. She'd felt drawn to attend BSM throughout the semester but when she finally did it was about "knowing God." Turns out she trusts God but has never been baptized and is not currently attending church. So I hooked her up with some of our local partnering churches, my email address, and an invite to join in next semester. PRAY FOR HER: to find a church home and complete the outward expression of her faith through baptism.
BEFORE LUNCH - per our conversation from lunch last week (Is the Bible reliable?") I had a follow-up convo with my friend, "Jenny" who said she had tried to read the Bible but stopped @ Leviticus! I told her to SKIP to Joshua. This week I picked up a few Bibles & offered her a better translation than the one she was reading. We chatted a bit. I ended our convo by asking her if she'd be interested in reading a chapter each week & chatting about it over coke / coffee next semester. "She gave me an overwhelming YES! I'd love that!" Continue to PRAY FOR JENNY: that Yahweh draws her to Himself in a way that is unmistakable & undeniable to her.
Ask the Pastor is one of my favorite events! It's fun to have local pastors on campus and the event brings an energy with it that I just cannot explain. The questions are often difficult ones but they are always respectfully asked in honesty. The answers are thoughtfully balanced with grace and truth from scripture. Thanks to FBC Conroe & Crossroads Baptist Church for helping make this event so fun! Here are some pictures from our recent Ask the Pastor event on Halloween.
This week I saw how God uses the Body of Christ: the faithfulness & hard work of our volunteers, how He answers the prayers of our prayer partners, and blesses the financial investment of individual friends and local churches. These three working in tandem allow the ministry of BSM Montgomery to thrive, new seeds of friendship to be planted with “Mary Kate,” as well as the sprouts of spiritual growth in “Jenny.”
Mary Kate walked into FREE LUNCH this week about 15 mins late and sat down. After lunch I introduced myself & she immediately shared how she enjoyed our food and appreciated our conversation about Thanksgiving. So, I asked her if she went to a local church. “Oh, I don’t believe in God, although most of my family does.” She further explained that she struggles with the idea of a “fictitious being playing puppet master to our world.” In spite of all of this, she enjoys having honest conversations with her friends of faith (Catholic, Protestant, & Muslim) as well as attending services @ their places of worship. One of her most pressing questions is “how can the world religions be so similar when it comes to values but not agree?” By the end of our brief conversation we had touched on why Christ followers believe that Yahweh God is different from the other world religions, GRACE vs works, LGBTQ, BSM Free Lunch, and why we hoped she’d come back to discuss spiritual questions on a weekly basis. As she left (talking to another student) she looked at me with a smile and said, “I’ll see you next time!”
Jenny has faithfully attended BSM Free Lunches this fall semester. At first, she seemed to be a prickly counter voice in our weekly conversations. Throughout the semester her demeanor seems to have “softened.” Her questions and comments have become less abrasive as of late. She seems to be leaning IN to our conversations rather “pulling back.” Today, in our conversation about Thanksgiving, I asked if anyone had a favorite verse about being thankful. After a few responses, she commented, “Some of us are just learning verses...” I affirmed her attitude of seeking and her faithful attendance to seek Him weekly. This conversation and attitude is an answer to pray.
BODY OF CHRIST, CONTINUE BY PRAYING FOR:
I need to be completely honest with you. The beginning of this semester has been the exact opposite of my expectations for the fall & it's been hard! In fact, most weeks, I dread Sunday because I know that means I'm going to have to go to campus and I just don't want to go.
First of all, it's a LOT of work to get there. I have to load everything: a sidewalk A-frame sign (weighing about 15lbs), a folding dolly to move the sign across campus, a cooler loaded with ice & 30+ bottles of water, paper plates, napkins, & other necessities for our FREE LUNCH. (Let me pause and say that I am so very grateful for my amazing friend & volunteer, Krystal, who coordinates all the food coming to campus brought by local churches, herself, or delivery - without her I do not know what I'd do.) Needless to say, it takes a lot to get there & get set up.
Secondly, no matter how much I prepare for the Question of the Day these conversations take on a life of their own and can go in ANY direction. This experience can be both exhilarating and exhausting. As a type A person, I've learned that the art of facilitating a conversation can be both frustrating (because I cannot be in total control) but also fun if I let go & enjoy the conversation. As I prepare, I plan point A & point Z, the rest I've learned I can lean into the process and trust the Holy Spirit to guide the conversation every week, When I do it's always amazing to be part of!
Third, I feel pulled in so many directions. My husband recently told me we are part of the OREO generation (caring for the top cookie: aging parents as well as the bottom cookie: young children). So life can be busy. On top of that, I've got 3 part-time jobs. I continue to raise my support as a Texas Baptist Missionary (hovering between 40-50% funded). My goal is to be on campus one day a week (Tuesdays) doing BSM & do office work Thursdays. To fill in the funding gap I'm a crossing guard and I've started a photography business: Tamara's Camera.
ALL of the above make me not want to go to campus. But then Tuesday rolls around and I go. Many days, like today, I leave on cloud 9! Energized! After preparing, dragging myself, and ALL the stuff to campus, I got into room 223. The pizza came. The students came. We ate & we discussed our Question of the Day: Is there a God? If so, how do you know? The discussion was deep, thoughtful, & honest. Again. I couldn't have planned the exact words to say or scripture to reference but the Holy Spirit was there and spoke through students & myself. My goal is that our FREE LUNCH is a safe place to have an honest conversation about God and spiritual things. We accomplished that today... in just 30 mins.
So, please continue to PRAY:
It's easy to become discouraged & listen to the negative voices in my head after a month like August. I realize that my month does not compare in the least bit to many individuals who live so close to me, their lives have been turned up-side-down.
However, BSM was poised for an EPIC start to our semester.
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